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Street Dance

Fourteen-year-old Yubaraj works around the clock parking cars in Katmandu. For his family it's survival - for him, a kind of suicide by exhaust fumes.

By Kevin Sites, Wed May 17, 2:39 PM ET

KATMANDU, Nepal - This is Yubaraj Khakada's world: an endless dull parade of metal and fumes. Cars and motorcycles that must be shoehorned into parking spaces on the side of a garbage-filled street.

He works a stretch of concrete near the tourist section of Katmandu called Thamel, a maze of trinket and trekking shops, restaurants and bars, mostly catering to foreigners who have come to hike in Nepal.

Two years ago Yubaraj was in school in the eastern village of Bethan. But then his father died, although he won't say how.

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The elders in his village said Yubaraj should leave Bethan to come here and work to support his mother, two sisters and brother.

"I'm the oldest," he says, smiling shyly.

So at the age of 12, he became a man, working 14-16 hour days, seven days a week, as a parking attendant.

He pads up and down the pavement in a graceful street dance that he has performed over and over in the last two years: waving drivers into impossibly tight spots, writing up tickets on slips of cardboard scraps, making change, putting a motorcycle rider's kickstand down with the flick of his foot, pulling another rider's bike out of a slot by the grab bar on the seat.

It is life-numbing work for a bright boy who would rather be in school.

"I wish I could be studying again," he says. "But what choice do I have?"

Instead, Yubaraj deals with the dangers of reckless drivers and drunken idiots who stumble out of bars and refuse to pay him, sometimes even slapping or punching him when he asks for what's due.

"Those are the times when I wish I could be gone from this place, " he says, ruefully.

Like a taxi driver, Yubaraj is an independent contractor. He must pay the man who owns the space 820 rupees (about $12 U.S.) every day, regardless of how busy it is. Anything he makes after that is profit.

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"I start at 10 a.m. and I usually have to work until 10 p.m. to make the 820," he says. "Then I can start earning for myself."

Yubaraj says he makes about 2,500 rupees a month, about $33, but sends two-thirds of it back to his family. The rest he uses to pay for a small room in a hotel where he lives with a couple of older boys.

He washes his own clothes and usually eats two meals a day of rice, beans and curry at the hotel.

"At first, I used to get lonely," he says, "but now I'm used to it."

Yubaraj says he goes home only once a year, during a period of festivals and celebrations in Nepal. He says he doesn't really have any friends in Katmandu and he just shakes his head when I ask him if he ever gets a chance to just play or relax.

Yubaraj Khakada

"I don't even think about that," he says. "How can I?"

Yubaraj says he worries that he could lose his job, because Nepali law forbids children from working before they turn 16. But it's a law that most everyone knows is widely ignored here.

As tough as his life is, Yubaraj knows he's better off than some others. At night on the block he works, the street children begin to come out in packs. Filthy and in rags, they beg from those going into Thamel for dinner or drinks.

Yubaraj looks at them and is thankful for the ongoing line of headlights waiting to park — the thing that keep him perhaps a few steps ahead of a different fate.

"I do want to go back to school," he says.

But as the head of his household with the responsibility of supporting his family, he's just not exactly sure how, or when. For now his street dance must continue.

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Comments

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1
Where can I send this kid some money to? Im willing to pitch in a couple/few hundred....
Posted by bicyclej on Wed, May 17, 2006 12:07 PM ET
2
Likewise, if you obtain any info on how I could send him something as well, please let me know. I think anything might help him, at least for a while...
Posted by azulcbrio on Wed, May 17, 2006 12:23 PM ET
3
please let us know where we can send money to this child!!
Posted by scantu78363000 on Wed, May 17, 2006 12:56 PM ET
4
Sending a couple of bucks to this boy isn't going to help him. For one thing, it won't get to him, and even if it did what about the millions more like him. Things aren't going to change unless people start speaking out and working together to change the sad plight of the world today. And this involves more than speaking out on a blog. By the way, Kevin, great work. Keep it up. I greatly admire your courage and quality of work.
Posted by freedomtobeuniversal on Wed, May 17, 2006 1:03 PM ET
5
I BELIEVE ALOT MORE OF AMERICANS WOULD BE WILLING TO HELP THIS CHILD SO THAT HE CAN GET OFF THE STREET AND GET BACK TO BEING A NORMAL CHILD LIKE GOD WANTED HIM TOO.IMAGINE IF THIS WAS YOUR CHILD ?I
Posted by momscrew04 on Wed, May 17, 2006 1:07 PM ET
6
I have seen children in horrible circumstances in the U.S. What about the children in group homes, in the foster care system and in juvenile hall who are survivors of physical, emotional and sexual abuse? There are children all over the world suffering and my heart goes out to them. I would help each and every one of if I could, but there is so much that we can do. We cannot just go into another country and tell them what to do. Unfortunately there is a lot of red tape and politics that interfere with one being able to go in and directly help. Believe me, there are people all over the world that would like to help but are helpless to do so.
Posted by freedomtobeuniversal on Wed, May 17, 2006 1:19 PM ET
7
I am not trying to put a damper on those who really want to help. There are humanitarian organizations that work in these countries and donating to them will help other children like Yubarej.
Posted by freedomtobeuniversal on Wed, May 17, 2006 1:25 PM ET
8
do you really think that if there was a way to send him money it will get to him? or will someone else get the money?
Posted by aderereynolds72 on Wed, May 17, 2006 2:01 PM ET
9
The problem is they are thinking. That is about all the brain power they have in a brain that is the size of a pea. Get real! People like you jmide and people that come up with user names like Kevin Siteisgay are really lame. If you don't like Kevin's work, then go find someone else to harass.
Posted by freedomtobeuniversal on Wed, May 17, 2006 2:13 PM ET
10
If the story is true it is another sad case of a child forced to be an adult sooner than they should have to be. My question is whether or not the story is true. Why doesnt the child work in an area closer to home if he must work out? Kevin should have interviewed his family as well before reporting a story. I dont doubt that the child has to work but I do doubt his story about supporting his family because his father died when he is reluctant to divulge how. Perhaps he was afraid that Kevin would check his story.
Posted by kindfirez on Wed, May 17, 2006 2:20 PM ET

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